
Today is Keira's first day back to school. Where has time gone? It seems like only yesterday we were enjoying being on vacation and on the beach...
We had a parent/teacher meeting Monday night and that's where we found out who would be Keira's new teacher, where her classroom would be (goodbye preschool floor, hello 1st floor!) and who her classmates are. As we went through the class list, our hearts sank as we realized Keira's bff Miss B is not in the same class. After having spoken with other parents, it dawned on all of us that this was done with a purpose in mind: getting our kids to learn something. No more baby play, goodbye with getting away with snuggies and relying on a clique or best friend. This is the big leagues. Time to grow up and get those brains to suck up some learning.
Last night I had the difficult task of telling Keira her bff is no longer in her class. It didn't go so well. She got sassy. She gave me lip. She got anxious.... then she got mad. But right before bedtime, she started asking questions. She asked me questions in a very forthright, confident way. "Mommy, who's my teacher? What am I going to learn? Where's my classroom? Is it near the end of the hallway upstairs? Where's the stairs? Who's going to help me find my way to my new class? Tell me who's in my class!". And I answered her questions as best as I could, giving her directions of where her new class is situated and what she can expect the first few days.
Don't worry folks, as bad as it may sound.. losing her bff to another classroom will end up being the best way. They need to stop using each other as crutches and this will also give them an opportunity to shine individually without competing with each other as well. Also, if you don't already know, Keira is friends with all of these kids, from both classrooms. She won't be lonely. I promise!
So I sent her off this morning. She was a little apprehensive but saw a friend, each giving each other a huge hug. I walked her to the door but didn't go in with her (new rule: parents no longer allowed inside the doors in the morning). I saw her hesitate in the crowd of newbies, returning students, hallway monitors and teachers.. I saw her look left and walk confidently away, her ponytail swishing behind her. Then she was gone. Good luck to my new first grader!


















































